When we are stressed out or sad we project our inner state to the outer world. And everything around us starts to seem joyless and gloomy. It is natural that during our “down’ times a lot more negative thoughts race through our mind. All you have to do to end this negativity flow is tell yourself, “STOP!”.

He may be that hearty buffoon, "the life of the party." She's the inconspicuous
little old maid down the street who never forgets your birthday. He could be the
jovial, back-slapping salesman. The smooth con man. The witty, entertaining gossip columnist. Wherever he turns up, he'll be in disguise. If you're generous in character, you may be tempted to treat him leniently. Don't.

Have you noticed how some people seem to have everything they need to be successful: right knowledge, good looks, family connections and starting capital and yet they fail miserably? While others who do not seem to be that smart or that outgoing become successful against all the odds? The true reason behind success and material wealth is not the resources that you have it is the way you think, talk and act!